I always wanted to be an Engineer, but to my bad luck, the year I had to join the University increased the tuition fees for merit seats from INR 18,000 to INR 32,000. That was not affordable. One of my close family members owns a Charitable Trust, so I met them and requested for a scholarship. After completing legal formalities, which included writing a letter explaining that I have a single parent who cannot afford the high fees, so I need financial aid. It hurt me, to write about my helplessness to my own blood relation.
During counseling I managed to get a merit seat in Electronics & Communication (I selected this branch of Engineering as I heard it was the most difficult, silly me) but my happiness was short lived. Government called off this counseling and announced for a new one by reducing the number of already minimum merit seats and increasing the fee structure to INR 58,000.
So I was back to requesting, explaining and rewriting the letter, literally begging.
I joined Engineering in 2004, found it extremely difficult to attend all the classes, I was not the studious kind. I felt totally out of place amidst all nerdy students. I had to put efforts to stay awake during the class. I thought I did a huge mistake my joining this professional course. I would curse myself for not knowing what Engineering really was before getting in.
My first semester results were out, I was just hoping to pass. What I saw, was totally unexpected I had scored 78% - FCD( First Class with Distinction), among top 20 students.
Don't ask me how, all I can tell is I didn't copy/cheat, I couldn't because the supervision was strict and rules were stringent.
Few of my Engineering Classmates ! |
every thing happens for a reason .. your mom will be very proud of you now :) .. good to meet same branch blogger :D
ReplyDeletedidnk know u were an engineer too! same pinch ;-) well am from cse branch! still studying :-) hope u had a fun time during ur student years :-)
ReplyDeleteIt is challenging and I can empathize with you when yous ay difficult to write to you own relatives about the problems you face
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Engineering is a tough field (one my husband started in and switched out of) so congratulations to you! Shells–Tales–Sails
ReplyDeleteIt's lovely when things like that occur in life, isn't it? Good on you! :)
ReplyDeleteI am very impressed. Good for you. I hope you are very proud of yourself
ReplyDeleteThat's awesome and I'm sure it was the sheer hard work that you put in that made you come out with flying colours!
ReplyDeleteGood
ReplyDeleteYour hard work paid
Such wonderful thing to happen, isn't it? So, did you keep getting distinction for the rest of the four years as well?
ReplyDeleteAn engineer who writes from the heart! Now that is a great combination - good that things worked out for you. But somehow I never took you for an engineer...maybe that's my bias :) I thought you were an artist or poet or someone like that...
ReplyDeleteWow congratulations! Hard work pays :)
ReplyDeleteHard work never goes in vain but sometimes it gets really difficult holding on with patience...
ReplyDeleteyour hardwork really payed off. Inspring story how you overcame the stumbles in your path.
ReplyDeleteThanks guys :) Yes I will write in further posts about my 4 crucial years of Engineering.
ReplyDeleteYes Engineering was what I studied, after engineering I did explore other fields like......
I bet you cant guess it... to be continued
Congrats. Sincerity and hard work always pay good dividends.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations.. WTG! I was always a backbencher in my engg days more interested in extracurricular activities. As my professors used to say "You are regularly irregular !" :)
ReplyDeleteAnanya I admire your courage to write about hardships that you went through...most of us do not want to look back. May god bless you, with each post my respect for you grows.
ReplyDeleteI NEVER wanted to be an engineer. NEVER wanted to work in a corporate. But, here I am.. Expect the unexpected! :P But I love my job now.. :P
ReplyDeleteJokes apart, I love how you write about your difficult times. It needs confidence. Cheers girl..
Ananya, I am knowing a lot about you and all I can say is *hugs*
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For few post.. tho i read i found it very difficult to comprehend and even comment.. !! :( good one..
ReplyDeleteThat's life, it puts us in unexpected circumstances and gives us some unexpected results. Glad that finally it worked for you so well! *Hugs*
ReplyDeleteFantastic, Ananya. I'm glad you did well.
ReplyDeleteAh, I am an E& C student as well and I can totally sympathize with you. The labs were horrible :) Glad that you did well, yes sometimes when we least expect it, life springs some happy surprises :)
ReplyDeleteHey .. Just added you to my list of Inspiring People.. have a look @ Truly Inspiring Blogger
ReplyDeleteHey Shyam, This is really sweet of you. you know in this competitive world its so refreshing to meet people like you. Even though we are total strangers, its your modesty that you not only accept your feelings but express it so freely.
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Thanks again.
I think it was honest reward for the longing you had for the seat :)
ReplyDeleteOne reason why Engineering is the last option in course to be chosen is because of MATH. i hate math lol Great post!
ReplyDeleteWow Ananya :) Kudos to you :)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you did better than you expected! Keep up the good work!
ReplyDeleteYou are a brave girl! Keep it up! :)
ReplyDeleteThats great ! When u wish some thing to happen in subconscious mind , it happens. Great u did well :)
ReplyDeleteLife surprises us when we least expect.
ReplyDeleteYour mom must be so proud.
Happiness and Health Always.
Well done! Just need to have faith in yourself. :)
ReplyDeleteBelieve in yourself and your abilities :)
ReplyDeleteGood luck, Ananya. Happy that success reached you,for all your struggles ! Nice way to write about it :)
ReplyDeletedin knew u were engineer :) i'm frm cse :) brave girl ;) :D
ReplyDeleteYey Ananya! That is amazing:-) Great to read. You are a strong person - following your dream. I cheer for you lady:-)
ReplyDeleteAnanya the best part about each of your stories is that they are real. They have happened to you. and hence I feel that emotion behind the words...
ReplyDeleteRicha
Your journey seems to have been a challenging one. What I am glad about is how you surmounted those obstacles to emerge triumphant. Well done! I like the realism in your posts.
ReplyDeleteWow ! That was because, you worked really hard !
ReplyDeleteYou are an engineer too! And you know what you are destiny's favourite too...I'm so glad I know such a strong woman through this blogging world :)
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Your relatives probably don't know that actually.....charity begins at home, what charity are they doing ,it all seems so meaningless?
ReplyDeleteInspiring story, Ananya. I love the unexpected :) Thanks for stopping over at Quiet Laughter yesterday--so glad you enjoyed the post :)
ReplyDeletebeing an Engineer, I can so relate with every word you wrote up there... indeed, engineering is a surprising package, I remember during my first semester Basic Electrical Engineering paper [I was a CSE Student though], my friend sitting beside me was so disappointed looking at the question paper and was looking at the ceiling fan every now and then, I was like "he will fail" and then when the results came, I scored just 52 and my friend scored 79... from that day on, I realized engineering is actually about "expecting the unexpected"
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Thanks all for sharing your views :)
ReplyDeleteHappy to meet all engineers and non-engineers :)
well done. I hope you can find a way to settle into your studies and make a difference in the world.
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hey .. that's unfair .. that was my story .. just joking
ReplyDeletegood to go to memory lanes ...
Happens. And if you're happy with your decisions now, then it's cool. :)
ReplyDeleteWell done Ananya :)
ReplyDeleteI know the pain. I know the pain... hehe happens... seriously keeping thyself awake was the most hardest job during my engineering... Sometimes I used to think about the Lecturers :D How Do they bear all that ? haha whatever ,, another Important thing about Engineering is to be an Outstanding student ..
ReplyDeleteNo you understood it wrong.. Outstanding mean == OUT - Standing :D when assignment is not done :D haha those were funny but happy memories :)
Isn't that wonderful to find your hard work paid off?
ReplyDeleteThat was a really nice start ... scoring high in your 1st semester :D I miss my engineering days though :-(
ReplyDeleteSunayana... All I remember about our Engineering days is ... ur blissfull Smile :) specailly when we would be waiting for our college Bus!
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